Do you ever wonder how long a guy can last when receiving oral sex? It can be a challenge to any man – and new research shows that no two men are alike. Join us in a frank exploration of some of the biggest questions about wild and passionate oral pleasure for gay men. Editorial note: The language ahead is sexually graphic and is intended for an adult audience.
Table of Contents
- 1.The Power of Oral Pleasure: Taking the Time to Enjoy it
- 2.Improving Your Performance: Techniques to Maximize Your Pleasure and His
- 3.Exploring Mutual Sensuality: Enhancing and Increasing Pleasure
- 4.The Art of Giving: Tips to Make it Last Longer and Feel Better
- Q&A
- In Retrospect
1.The Power of Oral Pleasure: Taking the Time to Enjoy it
Whether you’re the giver or receiver of oral pleasure, erotic, sensual enjoyment is all about taking your time—don’t rush it! When it comes to blowing him, slow and steady wins the race. Start with light kisses along the side of his shaft, delighting in the aroma and taste of his skin and body. Gently lap his balls, then let your hot breath tickle and tease the underside of his dick. As he grows harder, use a wet and wild tongue on his sensitive head.
Now comes the real fun! Get creative with different techniques to make his pleasure skyrocket. Use your fingers to brush lightly up the sides of his Love Rod, or cup his balls in one hand as you deep throat his hard dick with the other. A little ice or heat can take his arousal to the next level. And when you feel it’s time to accelerate his pleasure, increase the suction and tempo, alternating with gentle licks and caresses.
- Start with light kisses along the side of his shaft
- Delight in the taste and scent of his body
- Gently lap his balls
- Use wet and wild tongue on sensitive head
- Get creative with various techniques
- Use fingers brush lightly up the sides of his Love Rod
- Add a little heat or ice to increase arousal
- Increase suction and tempo, alternating with gentle caresses
2.Improving Your Performance: Techniques to Maximize Your Pleasure and His
Whether you’re a keen amatuer or an experienced pro, it’s important to remember that sex is often as much a mental game as it is a physical one. An understanding of techniques to maximize your pleasure and his is a great way to make sex more exciting for both of you.
Try exploring some of the following techniques to spice up your experience and up the stakes:
- Experiment with different positions. It’s easy to settle into a familiar routine, but why not challenge yourselves and try something new by switching up the positions you use? The roll of your hips, the angle of penetration, the pressure that’s applied – experimenting with different positions can bring a whole new level of sensation and pleasure.
- Focus on your breathing. Breathwork is an incredibly powerful tool that can bring your body into a relaxed and aroused state, making the experience more pleasurable. Practice taking long, deep breaths when you’re building up to orgasm (and during it, if you can manage it!).
- Engage in teasing. Teasing is a great way to prolong pleasure and build anticipation. Provide gentle touches, lick the base of his dick, lightly bite his nipples – whatever works for you. Increase the intensity as you go, stopping every now and then to build up the anticipation.
- Mix it up. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different kinds of stimulation – combining oral, penetration and manual stimulation is a great way to discover new levels of pleasure. Start with a few teasing strokes and then gradually increase the intensity until you reach your desired level of intensity.
It’s all about experimentation: explore what works for the both of you, find out how to maximize your pleasure and his and enjoy the pleasure that comes with it!
3.Exploring Mutual Sensuality: Enhancing and Increasing Pleasure
Exploring Mutual Sensuality requires two consenting, willing and aroused partners, who understand the potential for their own pleasure and that of the other person. Each partner needs to be open, honest and willing to give and to receive pleasure according to the boundaries discussed beforehand. Mutual pleasure can come from an array of activities – from cuddling and caressing to massaging and mutual masturbation.
When couples explore mutual sensuality, they need to approach it with the intention of creating an atmosphere of mutual trust, which can be accomplished by touch. Mutual masturbation can be a great way to become aroused together as each person will share their intimate pleasure techniques and be turned on by what the other person does. Mutual fondling and caressing of the dick or other body parts can increase desire and bring couples even closer together. As each partner discovers what activities bring their loved one pleasure, they can become more sensitive and in tune with each other as they explore and experiment with different kinds of play.
- Create an atmosphere of mutual trust through caressing and cuddling.
- Experience increased desire by mutual fondling and caressing of the penis or other body parts.
- Discover what activities bring pleasure to each other through experimentation.
4.The Art of Giving: Tips to Make it Last Longer and Feel Better
Giving your partner the perfect gift doesn’t have to just happen on special occasions. You can give him tokens of your affection any time of the year with some simple gesture that leave a lasting impression.
Here’s how you can give your man an unforgettable gift:
- Surprise him with a massage. Surprise your partner with a sensual massage that focuses on all of his erogenous zones. Stimulate his body with warm oils and deep-tissue kneading to get him in the mood for an exhilarating night.
- Be creative with lingerie. Bring out your man’s wild side with some sexy lingerie. Whether it’s a tight pair of boxer briefs, leather cuffs, or a tantalizing thong, a little bit of lingerie can go a long way.
- Take him to a sex show. Imagine the excitement of watching two beautiful women undressing and pleasuring one another in front of you. By taking him to a sex show, you can kick start some serious passion in your relationship.
- Give him a night of delight. Surprise your man with an entire night of pleasure – including a bottle of his favorite wine, sensual music, and tantalizing sex toys. This is sure to make him feel special and loved.
From massages to sex shows, showing your man how much you care is as simple as being creative and taking a risk. So let your imagination run wild, and give your man a gift that won’t soon be forgotten.
Concluding Remarks
As we’ve explored, oral sex can last as long as guys are willing to put in the effort—to explore, experiment, and continually give and receive. The possibilities can be endless and the journey as pleasurable as it is satisfying. There are no hard and fast rules about the length of time someone should last during oral sex as it’s something that can be changed, adjusted and adapted over time. Ultimately, the longest oral sex session is the one that leaves both partners satisfied and wanting more.
