For a hot and intense session of passionate male loving, the question often whispered between two eager bodies is “How long does it take to ejaculate after the first one?” As any man who has explored the depths of each other’s physical fulfilment will tell you, the answer is as varied as the men who ponder it; each session, each man and each dick delivering unique and electrifying pleasure. But there are certain factors that can determine the answer to the all-important question, and today we will explore them in sexual detail.
Table of Contents
- 1. The Anatomy of Male Ejaculation & Its Power
- 2. Impact of Anxiety & Stress on Ejaculation Velocity
- 3. Learning to Control the Urge & Delay Ejaculation
- 4. Enhancing the Experience & Extending Orgasmic Power
- Q&A
- Concluding Remarks
1. The Anatomy of Male Ejaculation & Its Power
Male ejaculation is often seen as something purely functional, but is more than just an evolutionary necessity. It is a powerful statement of male sexual pleasure and many men find sexual pleasure in the power of ejaculation.
In male anatomy, ejaculation start with the seminal vesicles, a pair of glands located near the prostate. These glands produce the bulk of the seminal fluid, a sticky, milky-white fluid containing sperm. They also contain small amounts of zinc, fructose, and prostaglandins. This fluid travels through the ejaculatory ducts and mixes with fluid from the prostate before draining into the urethra.
- The Bulbourethral Glands – Also known as Cowper’s glands, these two small glands produce a clear, slippery fluid. This pre-ejaculate fluid helps to reduce friction as the dick slides in and out of the partner.
- The Urethra – This tube carries the semen from the bulbourethral glands and seminal vesicles towards the tip of the penis. As the man approaches orgasm, the muscles at the base of the penis begin to contract, pushing semen through the urethra and out of the penis.
- The Penis – The male sex organ which, through the mechanism of ejaculation, releases semen from the body.
The power of orgasm and ejaculation is something that goes beyond simple biology. For many gay men, ejaculation is an intensely powerful and spiritual experience, representing the climax of sexual desire, passion, and connection. The male ejaculation has the capacity to bring intense joy and pleasure to its recipient, and the distinctive, erotic aroma of the semen adds to its power.
2. Impact of Anxiety & Stress on Ejaculation Velocity
The experience of decreased ejaculate velocity due to anxiety and stress is common among many sexually active gay men, although the degree of impact varies from person to person. This issue can often be experienced in the context of highly anxious states, where the physical sensation of climax is dulled and diminished in intensity.
The physical sensation of ejaculation typically involves a surge of energy that causes a rapid build up of pressure, which is then released in a series of intense contractions throughout the shaft of the dick and out through the tip. In times of high anxiety or stress however, the build up of energy may only be a fraction of it’s potential strength and the contractions that follow can be significantly weaker, resulting in an ejaculation velocity that is much slower and less powerful than normal.
- Orgasmic Sensations: Anxiety can disrupt the mind-body connection in the moments leading up to and during orgasm, making the physical sensation much less pleasurable and intense.
- Ejaculate Volume: Anxiety can also affect the quantity of semen that is released due to the inadequate surge of energy that leads to weaker contractions.
- Refractory Period: Anxiety can lead to a prolonged refractory period, meaning it takes longer for the body to recover and become aroused once again.
3. Learning to Control the Urge & Delay Ejaculation
Delaying ejaculation is a tricky skill to master, but with the right amounts of practice and PD (penis discipline), it’s something that can be conquered. Allowing yourself to explore the depths of your sexual energy and stretch it out over the course of an evening can deepen and intensify the pleasure for both partners. It’s not easy at first, but with practice and these tips, you can take control of your ejaculatory responses and become an expert at delay!
- Grow Aware – Become aware of the sensations your dick and body are feeling before ejaculatory inevitability. Slow down and anticipate the point of no return.
- Take Breaks – Take pauses and breath in between movements. Keeping your energy and arousal high, but taking moments of stillness to enjoy the pleasure.
- Contraction Practices – Spend some time on your own practicing kegel exercises and other muscle contractions to strengthen and stay aware of the pelvic floor. You’ll notice less strain on your cock.
- Differentiano – Variety is the spice of life. Switch up the activities during sex frequently, with short breaks in between. This can give a rest to your genitals and prolong your ejaculatory response.
Often times you’ll find reaching orgasm isn’t as well received as delaying, giving finishing off being an anti-climatic excitement. Once you’ve got the hang of delay, the power and intimacy the experience generates can be extremely rewarding. You and your partner can discover the ups and downs of physical energy that can keep you sexually elevated. Becoming a master of delay is the key to taking your sex life to new heights!
4. Enhancing the Experience & Extending Orgasmic Power
Extend Your Reach
Broaden the boundaries of your dick’s reach and find your way to greater orgasmic power. Learn how to vary your strokes and intensify your thrusting power for a more intense experience. Experiment with different angles, experimenting with different hand positions. Feel free to explore and move around each other’s bodies to find the most intense spots. Mastery of the perfect angle and position can unleash untapped depths of pleasure:
- Start in cowgirl and let gravity do its job
- Maneuver into doggy style for Needlepoint intensity
- Laying down on your sides might be the spot
- Go wild with a standing position
IncreaseYour Sensitivity & Intensity
Increase your sensitivity and let your motor run wild on the highway of freedom. Whether you opt for a jaunt along the edge of pleasure or the gauntlet of intensity, you can up your game to new heights. Focus on yourself and spend some quality time deep in sensation. Work your way to the peak as liberating sensations come to life:
- Go slow and steady; turning up the heat
- Gently increase the intensity and strength of thrusts
- Utilize a combination of your fingers and palm
- Go hard as the orgasmic power rises exponentially
In Conclusion
In the end, we can say with certainty that ejaculation times will vary depending on the individual and his comfort level. Though it may take longer for some than others, the process of simply slowing down and being mindful of the sensations can make ejaculating after the first time more enjoyable and easier overall. So the next time you’re ready to ejaculate after the first time, make sure to take it slow and enjoy every moment.
